Is a lack of motivation in life and, or, the bedroom slowing down or stopping the relationship with your partner from growing? Men and women can experience this problem throughout their lifetime for a variety of reasons. If he or she is turning down your advances or not making any of their own, it can cause feelings of rejection and emotional pain in the relationship. This makes it more important than ever to evaluate solutions other than simply prescribing a little magic pill.
When your partner starts turning down your advances, don’t worry or try to fix a problem that you cannot control! It’s likely not your fault. There is probably a good explanation and it has nothing to do with how he or she feels about you. Here are some common reasons why men (and even women) might say no. Read on to learn how we can help get your significant other get back their mojo.
Your partner is exhausted
Chances are if your partner is expressing feelings of being dead to the world, they might really be exhausted. Exhaustion will make your partner physically incapable of being intimate. Even if they say they are in the mood, physical or mental exhaustion might not allow them to be at their best.
What can we do?
With advanced technology at our fingertips, our team takes a deeper look at what is the root cause of exhaustion. Our medical assessments analyze the physiological issues that might be occurring. These tests allow our medical team to share evidence of what is going on while providing a baseline for improvement. As this occurs, members also meet with medical providers to talk through environmental factors, medical history, and other concerns that might have an impact on energy levels. The combination of these approaches provides a powerful system for helping your partner become more alert and energetic.
Your partner might be suffering from depression
Depression can and, at inconvenient times, will affect your partner’s drive and desire. Whether suffering from clinical depression or simply depressing thoughts, both men and women are impacted by issues with their mood during their lifetime. A study from 2015 found that depression might actually affect more women than men. Unfortunately, as this article describes, hormonal changes associated with depression can have negative impacts on your sex life.
What can we do?
Depression and low libido may go together. Depression is often the cause of a reduced sex drive but may also be the consequence, making a tough situation worse. As there is no one-size-fits-all approach it’s important for your partner to talk with an expert. Sometimes, solutions to this issue might be psychological rather than physiological. For this reason, our approach to learning about the mind, body, and health history of the patient can be very helpful.
Your partner has trouble with the plumbing
A man who experiences difficulties may withdraw from his partner for fear of disappointment or think that he’s less of a man. It’s important to note that this is a common problem among men but women can also experience physical issues that cause sex to become less enjoyable and even painful with age. In these examples, we often hear from our members who say their desire for their partner’s physical affection is as strong as ever, but things just work like once did.
What can we do?
First and foremost, don’t take it personally. Low libido can sometimes be caused by a single factor but is more often related to multiple factors. Among some of the more common causes are low testosterone, medications, depression, chronic illness, and stress. Our medical experts look at each individual issue and suggest solutions based on the member’s health and lifestyle. It is important to note, sometimes solutions are non-invasive and might not even involve medication.
Your partner’s testosterone levels are low
As men and women age, their testosterone levels begin to decrease. By age 40, we have half the level of testosterone as we did during our 20s. This can easily affect mood, happiness, sense of well-being, mental desire, and physical arousal.
What can we do?
The good news is, we treat our patients suffering from low testosterone every day. Our team will work to identify the source and restore levels back to optimal amounts. This makes the 25 Again approach a safe, simple, straightforward method for helping partners feel more loved, appreciated, and satisfied with their significant other.
Talking about these issues can be challenging. It is important to be aware of the reasons why your partner might not be readily available for physical intimacy. In many cases, this can be due to a variety of factors that have nothing to do with their emotions or affection toward their partner. However, this does not make it easy for partners to confront or fix these issues on their own. But you don’t have to face these problems alone. The team at 25 Again makes it easy to get helpful information and learn about options for regaining the passion in your relationship.
For details about how to talk to your partner or to schedule a consultation, contact us today!
Sources:
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4478054/
https://www.healthline.com/health/depression/sexual-health